Sexuality has long been a taboo subject in a number of cultures. For many women this has translated into them being provided with little education about their bodies and their natural biological responses.
The end result is millions of females that are unable to fully enjoy an orgasm when they make love. If their partner also lacks expertise and knowledge in this department, the sexual act can often be less than a spectacular experience.
A woman is meant to enjoy orgasms whether they are attained through masturbation or by having sex with a caring partner. There are some ideas that have been proven to make orgasms easier for females to achieve.
Instead of just rolling the dice and hoping for the best, try using these four powerful tips that can help any woman reach the heights of orgasmic bliss.
Setting the Mood: Women are sexual creatures, but their enjoyment of sex requires finesse, patience and sensual experiences. A female is more likely to reach orgasm when the environment is conducive to romance.
Males are turned on by simply being presented with some visual stimuli, but a woman needs more than a few pictures to send her sexual desire into overdrive. You can find settings that are naturally romantic such as a moon-lit beach. You can also create the right mood with additions of sensual music, wine, flowers or scented candles.
Finding the Right Spot: You should know how to find just the right spot if you want your woman to experience a mind-blowing orgasm. Explore all of the erogenous zones on your lady’s body. Experiment with sensual touch and full-body massages. Concentrate on the areas of the body that are most pleasurable to your partner.
The clitoris is the key to orgasmic experiences for a woman. When a woman is aroused the clitoris becomes extremely sensitive. You will need to exert just the right amount of touch and pressure for orgasm to occur.
Slow Down, It’s Not a Race: The key thing to remember is that intimacy is an important sexual element that many women need to achieve orgasm. Gentle touches with a slow hand can linger, soothe and tantalize a woman’s erogenous zones better than any “rush job”. Take your time so that both of you will enjoy the sexual experience.
Let the Adventure Begin: Look for new sexual positions to try and search for creative environments to serve as the background for your love-making activities. The more relaxed and open-minded you are, the more likely an orgasm will be achieved.
Sex should always be an intimate adventure that brings you pleasure. While an orgasm is certainly rewarding, it should not be your main goal. Focusing on an orgasm can add stress to any sexual activity. Too much stress can prevent an individual from achieving orgasm.
Use your imagination and you will soon discover many ways to help a woman reach orgasm. Sex toys, erotic books and adult videos can be just as exciting and arousing for women as they are for men. You never know which of these suggestions will work unless you are willing to unlock the door to sexual adventure and test them out for yourself.